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Dress Code
Dress Code: Black Tie
We’re so excited to be celebrating this special evening with our favourite people — and we’d love for everyone to embrace the opportunity to get a little glamorous!
Think of it as your very own night at the Oscars (just with better company and fewer speeches). Black Tie is all about classic elegance and feeling fabulous — it’s not about strict rules, but about enjoying the chance to dress up and make the night feel extra special.
For the Gentlemen
A tuxedo or dinner suit is the gold standard — think crisp white shirt, black bow tie, and polished shoes.
If you don’t own a tux, a dark, well-tailored suit with a tie or bow tie will look sharp and perfectly in keeping with the evening.
The aim is polished, refined, and ready for a night of celebration (and a few dance floor moves).
For the Ladies
A floor-length gown or a formal evening ensemble — whether that’s a statement jumpsuit, elegant two-piece, or chic midi in a luxe fabric — is perfect.
Think timeless materials like silk, velvet, or chiffon; a touch of shimmer is always welcome!
Add your favourite accessories, a pair of heels (or dancing flats), and a hint of red-carpet confidence — this is your excuse to truly shine.
We kindly ask that guests avoid wearing white or ivory, so Soph can enjoy her moment in those tones.
A note on the evening
We’re creating a setting that feels elegant and memorable — but above all, joyful.
Black Tie doesn’t need to feel intimidating; it’s about leaning into the magic of a beautiful evening and feeling your best, whatever that looks like for you.
So take the chance to get dressed up, have fun with it, and arrive ready to celebrate in style — we can’t wait to see everyone looking incredible.
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Outfit Hire Options
For anyone who would prefer to rent an outfit for the occasion, there are some excellent local options offering high-quality tuxedos, suits, gowns and formalwear for hire.
For Men:
• Suitor
• Opal Ivanhoe
• Formal Wear of Melbourne
• Black Tie Classic
• Trevor West
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For Ladies:
• Dress Hire AU
• GlamCorner
• Your Secret Closet
• The only Dress Hire
These services offer beautiful, high-end pieces suitable for a formal evening — perfect for those wanting to look (and feel) amazing without the commitment of a purchase.
Gifts & Wishing Well
Your presence at our wedding is the greatest gift we could ask for.
As you already know, we are an established home, so we don’t require traditional gifts. However, should you wish to honour us with something special, we would be so grateful for a contribution towards our family honeymoon to Europe in 2027 — where we hope to celebrate this beautiful milestone under the Tuscan sun.
A link to our honeymoon fund can be found below
Your love, laughter, and company mean the world to us, and we can’t wait to share this unforgettable day with you.
A note on Children
We love your little ones, but our wedding will be an adults-only celebration. We kindly ask that only those named on the invitation join us.
Accomodation
For those joining us from out of town or wishing to stay close to the celebrations, there are a number of wonderful accommodation options near our wedding venue at Gardens House in the Royal Botanic Gardens.
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United Places Botanic Gardens and The Royce are both just steps away and offer luxurious stays — with a special discount available for our guests at The Royce. To access this, please contact KC and quote “D’Rozario & Bockman Wedding” when booking at reservation@roycehotel.com.au.
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Just a short walk from the venue, Seasons Botanic Gardens and Quest on Dorcas provide spacious apartment-style stays, perfect for families and groups.
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The Lyall Hotel, a boutique luxury hotel in nearby South Yarra, offers elegant suites and a serene spa, just minutes from the Gardens.
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Within a quick drive or tram ride, you’ll also find The Langham, Melbourne, offering five-star comfort and sweeping Yarra views, as well as Holiday Inn Express Melbourne Southbank, a modern mid-range option.
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For those seeking a more affordable stay, Great Southern Hotel Melbourne provides convenient access to the city and surrounds, while still being only a few kilometres from the Gardens.
